“Your love life needs a healthy infusion of honest communication, according to the Romance Angels. You’ve been harboring emotions that are masking your feelings of love. There’s still time to heal the situation; however, it will require effort on your part. You may need to initiate an uncomfortable discussion and risk upsetting your partner. In the end, though, this is a necessary move to ensure the health of your relationship.”
Message from the Faeries: One of the things that we have observed for a long time now is that most people have a really hard time being honest with other people about how they are really feeling or about what they are really thinking. This often causes a lot do grief and troubles for you in the long run. What often happens in relationships and friendships is that someone’s behaviour, words or actions upsets the other person, but instead of saying anything, often out of fear, the offended person stays silent or pretends that everything okay.
There are, of course, many reasons why you do this. Afraid of being honest is often rooted in the fear that the person you are upset with will reject you when they know how you really feel, or another common reason is that you don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. While both of these outcomes are strong possibilities, we still wonder why you would rather live out a lie, by not being honest about how you really feel, rather then being up front and dealing with the consequences right away. Which ever approach you take, there will be consequences, but not being honest about how you feel right away only prolongs the outcome and causes more pain for yourself and the other person in the long run.
There are some very intense energies happening this week and there is a really good chance that you will find yourself having to be honest in an uncomfortable way. It will either be with yourself (most likely) or with someone else. There is also a really a good chance you will be on the receiving end of some honesty that you might not be expecting.
The good news is that this is all happening for the benefit of your own healing. Healing with yourself and healing in your relations. At the end of the day, it will do you all some good.
We love you,