Message from The Faeries: Some of you are experiencing a particularly challenging time in your life. Nothing seems to be working out the way you want it to. It’s like there is a dark cloud above you at all times. In some cases this is literally so – the weather is getting you down. For others, it just feels like a long dark teatime of the soul.
Here is the heart of the matter: it’s the heart! You need more love in your life. It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship or not, you need love. As we have said many times now: self- love is the key to receiving and having loving relationships in your life. If you don’t love yourself, how are you going to be able to recieve the love of others?
While it is true that others can inspire you to love, a full and wholesome love can only be achieved with the love of self. If you don’t know how to take care of yourself and love yourself, any expression of love with another person will have more challenges and runs the risk of unhealthy codependency.
For all of you single people out there who have lost hope of ever having romance in their life, please do not despair. All the work you have put towards yourself has not been in vain. If you’ve been spending lots of time learning to love yourself, appreciate the fact that it might take some time to meet someone who has also done this work. Have faith that you will meet an equal love exactly when you are meant to.
We would also like to say that if you are having a tough time in the romance department, take the time to do another scan of your attitude towards yourself. Are you feeling worthy of love? If not, what can you do to make yourself feel worthy? What steps are you going to take towards feeling lovable? Here is a huge hint: YOU ARE ALWAYS WORTHY OF LOVE. YOU ARE A LOVEABLE PERSON. YOU ARE ALREADY LOVED. Know it and feel it, deep in your heart. It’s the truest truth we’ve ever told.
We love you.