“The Romance Angels have heard your desire for great love, and they bring you this card as guidance. They see that your heart can give and receive this bliss of romance by clearing away the cobwebs of the past. The angels know that you’ve been hurt before, and that you’re wary of being hurt again. Yet your defenses are creating barriers to allowing love into your life.”
Message from the Faeries: There is definitely romance in the air this week. Can you feel it in your heart? Do you know this to be true? If you already are romantically involved with someone, and you are already with your life partner, then this week is a great opportunity to do a bit a little bit of healing work in your partnership. Take the time to communicate, in a healthy and loving way, any issues or bad feelings you have been harbouring. It’s time to let go and move forward in your relationship.
Letting go of the past will allow both you to find a new direction together, and you will most likely feel that spark of new love burning for one another. It’s important to keep things fresh and as light as you can make it for one another. When you carry around any bad feelings, or hurt, you add a dead weight to your partnership. Even the small things have to be taken care of. It can add up to a big pile if you keep ignoring minor issues. If there is something between the two of you that you don’t feel like you can heal alone, we suggest that you seek help from a professional therapist or healer. It is not healthy for anyone to carry that burden for a lifetime.
If you are currently single, whether you are wanting to be in a relationship or not, we recommend a small exercise for you to help release any old hurts from past relationships. This will allow you to open up and make some room for that special someone to come into your life. It will allow you to start a new pattern. Instead of attracting the types of relationships you used to have, you can now move forward and allow the healthy relationships that you do want into your life.
Here is what you can do: Sit down and write a list of all your past relationships and lovers. Don’t worry about it if you forget someone. If it wasn’t memorable it isn’t worth remembering. Think about each person on the list. When you think about each person, if you have any feelings that you don’t like arise, take that memory that creates that feeling and then look at it from a different perspective. Remember that you were a different person at that time and so were they. Think about how you would deal with that situation now. See that this is something that happened in the past. There is nothing you can do to change what happened. Forgive yourself and forgive that person. You only know your side of the story. You can never really know their side of the story. It doesn’t actually matter what their side of the story is, only how you view the situation. Do this with every single person on the list. You may be surprised and didn’t realize you were holding onto dead weight from those relationships. Rinse and repeat as many times as necessary.
Of course, people who are in relationships may want to do this as well. Sometimes it’s okay to do a short inventory of the past. You may have missed a few things the last time you did some healing work on yourself and your relationships. This maintenance may assist you on lifting that one little block that was stopping you from moving forward in your relationships and you didn’t even know it was there.
We know it can be a bit challenging to do this healing work, but you will receive so many long term benefits from doing such a small act. Please remember that you never have to do this work alone. You always have our love and support.
We love you,